The question we ask at every 9others meal
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What’s Keeping You Up at Night?
A number of you have requested bulk orders of books for your team, clients or investors for the holidays.
To be sure books arrive in time, please reply to this email now if you’re interested in ordering 10+ (at a bulk discount) for the holidays.
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Thank you,
Matthew & Katie
Co-founders, 9others
From the back cover
Since 2011, 9others has quietly become a global community of over 5,000 entrepreneurs who have shared a meal — and their biggest challenges — in more than 45 cities worldwide. At every table, one question unlocks the conversation: What’s keeping you up at night?
In this new edition, 9others co-founders Katie Lewis and Matthew Stafford distill insights from over 500 of these meals. Drawing from real founder struggles and the behavioural traits that helped them persist, this book doesn’t offer easy answers — but it will help you ask better questions. The right questions. The ones that shape great businesses — and even greater founders.
The 9others Winter Party
Thursday 12th February 2026 — London — details and signup here.
After an exciting week for Matthew — more on that here — we’ve moved the party to a “get set to make the most of 2026” party in Feb 2026.

